Published in The Shadow·PinnedI am Tired of Being a Woman and Mother in the United States of AmericaMy parents divorced in 1978 when I was two years old. Right on the cusp of an accelerating divorce rate in the U.S. My father, bless his soul, was in and out of my life throughout childhood. My mother was left to pick up the pieces and carry the daily…Women4 min read
Published in The Shadow·Apr 22My Disease is Like the Crippled U.S. Care Economy — Invisibly Eating Away at Our Ability to ThriveIt was inevitable. Looking back at the evidence — the undisclosed family history, the crooked and oversized knuckles attached to my grandmother’s petite hands as she reached out for mine, symptoms slowly coming and going like waves rushing over my body — I should have, could have, anticipated it. …Psoriatic Arthritis4 min read
Published in The Shadow·Mar 3The Reason Why We Have a Gender Wage Gap — My Latest Stay at MarriottMy daughter does competitive sports. The kind that require travel on weekends to competitions in neighboring states. Our latest adventure brought us to a Marriott and, for better or worse, the whole family went. It is stressful enough traveling with just my daughter, but when the whole family goes we…Gender Pay Gap5 min read
Published in The Shadow·Feb 17Things Got Worse For Parents in Covid (Again).But are we getting attached to the perks of the new normal? I have news for all the parents out there. Life as we once knew it will never return — like ever. January 2022 was utter chaos, the stress for parents more palpable and the anger hotter than our most frustrating freshman moments in this eternal saga I have lovingly titled…Parenting5 min read
Published in The Shadow·Jan 21Why We Should Put Moms in ChargeI am exhausted by the pandemic. I am tired of waking every morning to feed my kids and send them to virtual class in the dining room, only to walk a few steps to my home office to start constantly interrupted work. These days, like so many other working parents…Gender Equality4 min read
Published in The Shadow·Dec 30, 2021My Wish List for You in 2022The year is coming to a close. Have you made the most of it? Most likely not. We are all still living through a raging pandemic, and that is unfortunate. But, for 2022, I wish five things for you — and here they are. …New Year3 min read
Nov 3, 2021Who Said Being a PhD Job Market Candidate Would Be Easy? Finding that Perfect-for-You JobYou have done it. You are about to accomplish a huge milestone by going on the market this year. Congrats on getting this far! Now what? Are you considering a research economist gig in federal, state, or local government? In this article, I share my own experiences and provide some…Job Market9 min read
Published in The Shadow·May 21, 2021From Warrior to Housemaid — How the Pandemic Changed MeI started the pandemic as Mulan. Then I turned into Cinderella — the one BEFORE she met her prince. We were already more than 12 months deep in pandemic mayhem by the time I noticed. Not sure when it began exactly, subtly at first. But soon it stood tall, looming…Gender Equality4 min read
Published in The Shadow·Mar 30, 2021Vulnerable in the Hands of LeadersIt was my 45th birthday. I was on my way to a friend’s restaurant to celebrate with family when I got the text. Had I seen the email? “No,” I wrote back, “and I won’t for a while. I am off to celebrate my birthday.” Arriving home later that night…Gender Equality6 min read
Feb 10, 2021The Pandemic is Burning Women’s Careers into Ashes and DustWhen I was sixteen, I discovered a deep dark family secret. I was the descendant of a witch. This secret was passed on over the generations in hushes and whispers like a smooth breeze blowing over a hill before a raging winter storm. …4 min read